I use the apps my friends use but it gets tiring to keep up with so many.

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    Your options are RCS, Signal, or Lemmy mentions. Or losing contact with me I guess but I’m irresistible

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        Nah everyone has RCS these days except people with old phones and iPhones, and even the iPhones are going to be rcs compatible soon

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          The average person just has no idea about RCS or protocols in general and are incidental adopters of it just like SMS. Sometimes these nerd debates about platforms and protocols emphasize technology features over actually connecting with people or doing something productive on said technology.

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            I’m a nerd. I know vaguely what RCS is because I had a discussion in 2019 with a friend about it. Do I have it? Do I use it? I have no idea. Is it an app or just a protocol that happens behind the scenes? I would assume the latter. My phone’s a few years old, isn’t everyone’s? Probably that means I don’t have it. No way to tell and I’m not going to bother trying to find out.

            I’m so much more technical than most people btw

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            It’s a messaging standard, it’s pretty much SMS + Internet features. Developed like a decade ago and apple he been trying to dumpster it since then.

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      Reality check: nobody cares about you if you do not comply with societal “common denominator” norms.

      As unfortunate and bullshit as that sounds, it will always hold true. This is the reason I have Whatsapp and Discord work profile sandboxed and highly restricted running through custom HOSTS ruleset + NetGuard. I concluded these are the 2 platforms needed to minmax information “freedom” and social compliance.

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      So… proprietary data collecting thing owned by Google, service that requires phone number to sign up, or service that does not even pretend to be E2EE and (worse) routes chat traffic through multiple potentially-adversary-controlled servers on its way to you?

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        1. RCS is licensed GSMA, not owned by Google
        2. Signal requiring a phone number is a REALLY minor drawback
        3. Obviously lemmy mentions would not be for messages intended to be private, but for anyone to see, just like this one here.
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          But like saying Android isn’t proprietary.

          Like yeah, technically true, but in reality everybody uses a proprietary version of it controlled by Google.

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      RCS, Signal, or Lemmy

      I wish. But I don’t know a single person that uses any of those.

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        Most of my friends use Signal. Honestly hadn’t heard of RCS till now. Either my phone only supports SMS or I’m too technologically incompetent to enable RCS.