You really lucked out there!
It’s funny, I tried to explain to my wife on our first date and she totally didn’t understand the concept of BDSM … to her it was something baddies did on TV.
Yet we settled into lifestyle D/s everywhere apart from the bedroom, lol
Ah ok, I assumed your objection would be for giving rather than receiving … typically “I don’t do butt stuff” crops up in conversation before you tie someone up, and that I would respect
I think it’s genetic sometimes - I didn’t have a single grey hair until I was 35, which is when a bunch of health stuff kicked off.
Still don’t have much grey at 48, and my grandfather was only about 50/50 when he died at 85.
I have not had a stress-free life.
Indeed. I seem to be a magnet for baby gays
Aww, that sounds so sweet! I’m glad you found at least one partner that you’re well matched with :-)
Yup, gotta say that it took a few years after being a pro with men that I felt any urge to domme … and now I’m looking for a compatible fem sub I’m not keeping my hopes up
Really?
OK then, let me convince you - after a previous bad experience I just stick to the outside, where it’s easy to check everythings clean. You can even make cleaning the area part of the play.
If you tie down your sub with their backside in the air, and reduce their senses with a blindfold, hood, or whatever, it can be a very very intense sensation for them. Plus, it can be a surprise, especially if mixed in with more harsh forms of play. I’ve never bothered with consent for rimming just on the outside, assuming they’ve consented to traditional s/m activities.
Well, if you ever want an internet hug / spanking to take the edge off, let me know ;-)
lol
Edit: don’t worry, you’re safe - I’m on another continent ;-)
Good girl.
Now, get on your knees.
So you’re now a flustered naughty little boy in a dress?
Such fun >:-)
They found me, via advertising or word of mouth.
I’m long since retired from that line of work, though.
I think it’s also function of toxic masculinity - to trust your body to someone else goes against everything that’s taught about being macho.
To be blindfolded and tied is a very intense emotional experience, even before anything actually gets done … intense emotions are also considered bad by ‘tough guys’
Gotta sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to guys.
Much easier for WLW, if a girl says she’s kinky then even if it’s at the gentle end it’s gonna be fun ;-)
Protip - cut out coffee and drink pineapple juice, it makes your cum a lot more tasty ;-)
Not my experience, with the guys willing to hire a pro for general “kinky” stuff many didn’t want more than spanking and stern words … and that’s after they got over the psychological hurdles of actually talking to someone and confirming they had cash.
IME lots of boys like the idea, but have a low tolerance for loss of control, and no confidence that even if worked up gently they would actually enjoy being pushed.
It’s worth noting that Tehran (the city) is generally a little more lax than most of the rest of Iran/* … I’d guess she was singled out because her lack of hair covering could be seen easily from other parts of the country, and they don’t want the women there getting ideas
/* Source: I dated a girl from Tehran once, and that’s what she told me