Hi OP, I am in a similar situation as you were so I wonder which solution you chose at the end and if you are happy with it?

You could try to change the sleep state from s2idle to deep. Not sure how to do this on Kubuntu though.

I second using a preconfig for Hyprland if you want to have something fancy and usable out of the box. You can build on top of that.

Ice machines was something puzzling to me when I was in the US. I am curious why would you need an ice machine if you already have a fridge in the room?