An Embedded Software Engineer who does game dev as a hobby.

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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • My dude, I’m circumcised.

    I don’t get out much, is this a thing that happens a lot? I guess I don’t openly declare I’m circumcised to my social group. So there’s no way that they would know. But if they did would they make that a big deal? I have a hard time imagining that they would even care.

    Are you sure this is a societal problem and not a friend group problem?





  • Yes, if you want an example, look at fetishes. Also if you look through history, you’ll find that what people considered attractive varied massively.

    But also to your point, the media that we all consume says that this is the kind of person that looks attractive. And so if you ask most people what is attractive, they will tell you the standard Hollywood type.

    But I think most people, if they see someone that gives them that happy brain tingle, would go for it even if who they’re looking at isn’t conventionally attractive.

    Don’t get me wrong, if you’re not conventionally attractive, it does make things harder, but not impossible.

    If you need a modern example, I’m a fat computer nerd, and my wife found me on the internet.



  • I sympathize and also I disagree that there’s only one curve. Everyone is different about what they like. One person uggo will be someone else’s hotty.

    Now, if you’re not conventionally attractive that is definitely harder because everyone’s opinions are skewed.

    I also understand that you may feel like just giving up on finding a match. If that’s the case, that’s you’re right. When you really do give up, please stop posting about how it’s impossible to find someone. You’re being discouraging to others who are still trying. And the only other option is State mandated partners. Trust me no one wants that not even you.