so, doing something for yourself or people you care about is labour, doing something in exchange for money is prostitution

Feman is just a femboy who grew up

Can I interest you in Trackmania

I think it's completely valid to vote according to your feelings. That's how you determine what you find important in those you vote for. Drawings are a form of art and the purpose of art is to invoke specific feelings in the consumer - apparently more people enjoyed the first drawing and voted for it, which is completely valid for a competition for "drawings"; it wasn't a competition for drawing skills, just the pictures themselves.

What I find much more problematic for democracy is misinformation, especially if deliberate by news outlets, politicians or lobbyists. They know how to manipulate feelings to get what they want.

That's indeed interesting, I never get femme coded stuff recommended and I'm a cis woman gamer… Amazon just wants to sell me faster SSDs

Is this paradise meant to be perfect? It won’t be boring or meaningless, because that would mean that it’s not perfect.

Also, change can be pleasurable and as such not automatically contradicts paradise imho.

I want to throw in the following explanations I read (I haven’t fact checked them but find them interesting for this post). Women are statistically smaller than men and smaller individuals of a species live longer than larger ones. Men on average have faster metabolisms than women which is said to contribute to faster aging as well.