Where I go for care, they blow my phone up for two days sending me texts to check in for my appointment.
I fucking love it. While I try to make appointments on the same days everytime to help, and use my calander, those text reminders are fantastic. The day of, if I haven’t checked in yet, the text shoots out first thing in the morning, a little “hey! You have an appointment today!” And it’s very helpful.
I dropped sims 4 too. If you like to build, I’ve found recently House Flipper 2 is everything I ever wanted in a building game. Not a life sim, but still pretty cool
Which is why I’m patiently (and with no expectation) waiting for paralives.
Have they tried breaking it down into smaller steps to make it more manageable?
Why are you sucking reddits dick so hard?
Any amount of bots posing as humans is not cool
It took me 4 years and 6 therapists to find the right one. My therapist has adhd, I love her.
Take a break, but don’t give up on helping yourself
Oh it’s not a friend, but definitely well known about
My anxiety guides me.
Today I get to bask after three days of deep cleaning my home! It is a good day today!
Though, getting a new dishwasher installed is what sparked it, anxiety drives me to get my stuff done. Why waiting until last minute sometimes can produce my best work (yet sometimes can cause disaster still).
I also pushed myself onto a leadership position at my work once. A two year commitment. I had to do a lot of public speaking, I absolutely hated it, and cursed myself for doing it to myself, but it was to bring me out of my comfort zone and I knew the payoff was to help and be a voice for my fellow employees I represented. It was tough.
Hell yeah, for me, using my anxiety as a driver for change has been massively helpful in my life. Face it- then its faced, I still have the anxiety but I understand it and can objectively react to it in a positive way. Introspection is a hell of a thing.
I made Al Pastor, a bean dish, and three salsas yesterday. Four and a half hours (with cleaning as you go method).
Todays cook time will be 10 minutes.
I think about the car thing a lot, as we may need a new one in a few years.
My husband’s father leased a new BMW. He picked us up on easter with it. The whole front is a giant screen. You wave your hand a certain way, it can change the song or adjust the volume… by waving your hand. While he thought it was cool, all I could think about was the fact something was visually recording every movement in the car. And what if you’re a person who talks with their hands?
Stupid fucking needless features.
sitting in the office waiting to die 8 hours a day
That is exactly why I absolutely thrived in manufacturing. Well, the right type of manufacturing. I’d rather die than work in an office. I lasted exactly one month at my one and only desk job before I had to quit and find something different.
I don’t write often anymore either, but recently tried to write a letter to someone, wow after a few sentences could I notice how out of practice I was. I ‘jot things down’ all the time, but a letter, paragraphs, whew.
I think it’s tough, because many degree jobs are all desk jobs, so it’s like, you want the degree and good money, but the work, doesn’t sound fun. Im glad wfh has helped though, thats great
Doodle. I always doodled in my notes. Repeating patterns worked for me, because I am no artist.
I am still unmedicated, and method helped me a lot with lectures using pencil snd paper for notes.
Everyones different, I failed my online college courses. In person, I do alright. You may like online better.
But if you’re forced to sit in lecture, fuckin doodle.
When I finally have a day where I get all the house chores done, basking is the end goal of it.
Nothing is better to me, than basking in a freshly clean home. Bare feet on clean floors, lighting the candle when Im done, and just enjoying the delightful place I’ve cleaned and made pretty.
Trying to teach my severly adhd son about basking. He’s not getting it yet, but my god a job well done deserves a moment. Appreciate yourself!
I keep baby carrots washed and on the top shelf of the fridge, along with apples and such, for just this purpose.
I found this really interesting and thought provoking. I loved the line how ultimate optimism is not always misplaced.
I still rinse, but as of late have taken to using mouthwash between meals each day.
The mint hurts my mouth. I use a specific toothpaste, but I’ve used many kinds, they all hurt the inside of my mouth. I have to rinse to make it stop. Idk if other people think tooth paste hurts. My dentist compliments me on my teeth, they are not in terrible shape, my teeth dont hurt, its my mouth. idk what it is that makes toothpaste hurt but I have to compulsively rinse.
I’m in the age of flatbreads. Last winter was the time of the spicy bean, I often wonder what will become of the next era.
Exciting times in the kitchen
I know nothing about it. Next time I feel wired up for learning, I’ll look into it.
Just making jokes about the river, littering is never cool
It was free a few years ago, I’ve hated it since I got it. I think I got vibes from the windows phone a friend had some years ago and … thought it would be the same? Idk Mine broke, and it was free. Eh
River, meet phone.
I’ve been using Tuta Calander for about a year now, the free version. I like it.