You mean “dude?” I covered that, it’s a gender neutral term, did you even listen to the song? I used to call my grandma dude, only stopped because she died. She certainly wasn’t a male by any definition anywhere, old cisgender lady who prided herself on being “ladylike” and all, still called her dude from time to time. So that’s a you problem. And sorry with the stupidity of what you were saying I did assume you were a male, typically in my experience women are usually smarter than that, but again, I already apologized for that.