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minus-squareCylusthevirus@kbin.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoI got diagnosed with ADHD at 40 but up till now I’d just assumed I was a bad lazy person who’s badness at life was the reason for all of my various problems. Stuff like this has me wondering if … perhaps I was not just awful and lazy all the time?
minus-squareSirNuke@kbin.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoI think you’ll find that awful or lazy was never true, and the potential was always there buried deep. You just didn’t have the right tools.
I got diagnosed with ADHD at 40 but up till now I’d just assumed I was a bad lazy person who’s badness at life was the reason for all of my various problems. Stuff like this has me wondering if … perhaps I was not just awful and lazy all the time?
I think you’ll find that awful or lazy was never true, and the potential was always there buried deep. You just didn’t have the right tools.