• BubbleMonkey@slrpnk.net
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    8 months ago

    It took me about 6 months of having all the time I wanted to actually start making a sizable dent on the backlog of projects. Recovering from adhd-flavored burnout is no quick thing.

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      8 months ago

      ain’t that the truth. 6 months to recover from burnout is pretty good even. Some people are burnt out for years.

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        7 months ago

        I think it really helps for me that I don’t have anyone to take care of except myself, some cats, and some aquatic friends. They will let me slack if I have to. And I have enough saved up that this can continue for a long while if I want (which I do; I’m that fabled “nobody” who doesn’t want to work ever again)

        Whenever I’ve tried to recover and I was living with anyone else, it was absolutely much longer and more difficult. They, like, had needs and stuff and for whatever reason assumed that not working meant I was going to handle them all, plus more… plus I couldn’t just assume that my money would last, like I can now.

        When I say above “whatever I want to do”, I really do mean it. And even with that, 6 months to start getting things done again has made me feel like an abject failure many times. I have to keep reminding myself I gave myself so much time for a reason.

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    8 months ago

    I don’t need just a bit of free time one time. I need more free time always! The individual blocks of free time one tends to get end up being useless because you’re busy recovering from the rest of the time.

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    8 months ago

    Free time is free time, it’s okay - and in many cases good - to spend it resting.

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    7 months ago

    If you are expected to be productive, that is by definition, not “free time.”